Are you feeling the drag of the week? Did your day start off great? Or did your week begin disastrously? To those who’ve begun their week with a bang, kudos! May the streak continue. For those who’ve started their week in less than pleasant circumstances, it’s not the end of the world. Tomorrow is a new day and all that. When the unavoidable happens, don't let it keep you from doing what you love.
Everyone goes through rejection in some form or the other. I won’t get into the rejections suffered when in a relationship. That’s a whole different post. What I want to focus on is the rejection every writer starting out receives. I think it would be easier to count writers that don’t get rejected than those that do. Yes, there are those mythical cases of getting a yes the first time out. We won’t focus on those, either. What I want to look into is the writer that sends out query after query and receiving rejection after rejection.
When I started out querying Taste, I felt nauseous the whole time. I would send out ten queries per week. When the rejections started coming in, I felt bad. Of course, I felt bad. In the beginning, it feels bad, but I soldiered on. I began changing my mindset when it came to querying and submitting. I realized that querying is actually a process of elimination. Remember, your goal is to find the best agent to represent you or publisher to publish your work. You don’t want someone who’s only half-interested in your manuscript. You want someone excited about your story and willing to take a chance and to share it with the world.
Rejection is a necessary evil in the business of publishing. The question is: will you let a rejection stop you from seeing your work in print? All you need is one yes. No matter how many queries you send out or submissions you make, all you need is one yes. Of course, it’s nice to have several agents and publishers wanting your work, but in reality, one is more than enough. And, the best part, you can always submit again after going through another round of edits. They may have rejected you the first time around because your novel wasn’t what they’re looking for, but maybe the next time your submission becomes exactly what they want.
The author that became my inspiration when it comes to submitting is J.K. Rowling. Her work was getting one rejection after another until someone gave her a chance. Imagine how those who passed up her work must feel now that she’s made a bazillion dollars? One yes. That’s all it takes.
Mourn the rejection for a couple of hours (even a couple of minutes) then move on. Remember, there’s always a second, a third, a fourth chance out there for you. There's always one more book that needs to be written inside that beautiful brain of yours. There will be a publisher or an agent that believes in what you’ve written and will encourage you to make it the best that it can be. Someone who will champion your work. Weed out the rest and find the very best.
There’s nothing wrong with rejection. Actually, come to expect it. An agent or publisher rejecting you does mean that your work is crap. It means that they are not the right person for your work, and maybe, you won’t want someone without passion for your work representing you anyway. With so many agents and publishers out there, you would be hard-pressed not to find one.
Who knows? Maybe this next WIP you're working on will be the one that finally lands you that coveted "Yes?" Just keep at it.
For now, this is Kate, signing out!